| Location | Dartford |
| Age | 21 years |
| Cause of Death | Road Traffic Collision |
| Date of Birth | 03/10/1964 |
| Date of Death | 17/06/1986 |
| Visitors | 676 since 27/09/2008 |
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No-one could have wished for a more devoted son and brother. He lived life to the full and packed
so much into his 21 years. He is missed by us all. He helped everyone he could and did a lot for
charity (walking backwards around Brands Hatch was one way). His brother and sisters looked to him
for advice as he found academic subjects easy. He also had a wicked sense of humour which sometimes
got him into trouble at school. This made him popular with his mates as he didn't want to appear too
clever.
His dad never really recovered from the shock of losing him and nobody realised how much he suffered
because of it. People rallied around me and gave me lots of sympathy but his dad was somehow
expected to carry on as usual. They are together now and little Curtis has joined them in the same
grave.
His brother Andrew was his best friend and found life very difficult without him. They used to play
pool together and a memorial trophy was given in Paul's memory. Andrew was determined to win this
trophy and it was presented to him by his sister Karen, who was really proud.
His sister Natalie will never forget the day he died as it was on her 18th birthday and a big party
had been arranged for the weekend.
Things will never be the same again and I often wonder what might have been. I could talk to Paul
about anything and everything - he meant so much to me.
Have A Good Weekend Everyone
Gone are the days we used to share,
But in our hearts you are always there,
The gates of memory will never close,
We miss you more than anyone knows,
With tender love and deep regret,
We who love you will never forget.
Gone is the face we loved so dear
Silent is the voice we loved to hear.
Too far away for sight or speech,
But not too far for love to reach,
Sweet to remember them once here,
Who, though absent, is just as dear.
In all the world we shall not find
A heart so wonderfully kind,
So soft a voice, so sweet a smile,
Inspiration worthwhile;
A sympathy so sure, so deep
A love so beautiful to keep.
Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela(Christopher-John Rowe)Mum
Always in my thoughts
Thinking of you as usual Paul and finding comfort in the fact that you are with Dad and little Curtis. There are so many lovely people sending you messages. All my love, Mum xxx
ANGEL PAUL
SO SORRY YOU HAD TO GO SO YOUNG
SAFE IN OUR LORDS ARMS NOW AND FOREVER MORE.
REST IN PEACE.
GOD BLESS PAULS FAMILY , HE WAS TO YOUNG TO DIE BUT GOD ONLY TAKES SPECIAL PEOPLE AND YOUR PAUL WAS SO .SPECIAL BY THE SOUNDS OF IT.
(((((((( HUGS )))))))
FI
THE CORD!
We are connected, my child and I,
by an invisible cord not seen by the eye.
It’s not like the cord that connects us at birth,
this cord can’t be seen by any on earth.
This cord does its work right from the start,
it binds us together, attached by the heart
I know that it’s there, though no one can see
this invisible cord, from my child to me.
The strength of this cord,
it’s hard to describe,
it can’t be destroyed, it can’t be denied.
It’s stronger than any cord man could create;
it withstands the test, can hold any weight.
And though you are gone and you’re not here with me,
the cord is still there though no one can see.
It pulls at my heart, I am bruised, I am sore,
but this cord is my lifeline as never before.
I’m thankful that God connects us this way,
a mother and child…Death can’t take it away.
SO,SO, SORRY
♥Thinking of you and your angel♥
♥In your time of sorrow
Know that god is there
He will hold you in his arms
And wipe away your tears
He understands your pain
He feels the grief you feel
Just give to him your broken heart
For he in time will heal♥
LOVE JUDE.X
DANIEL SWADDLE'S MAM
RIP young Robert and remember me to another young angel like you mohammad who left me last year. Peace be on you both. I wish patience to your parents for the tragic loss.
Looking at Paul with his puppy, you can tell he was a true lover of animals. Paul was a true animal rights advocate. His animals had the right of sleeping in the bed, eating from the table and just being spoiled.
This will probably sound very much like your beloved Paul ( especially when he was very young ). Innocent doggie sitting there. Wary-eyed looking at me ; are you lost.., or could it be someone left you there.... all alone to face this world ?
Soon the sun will fade from sight and the day will turn into the darkest night. You have no water or food to eat; Come, I'll take you home with me. Abandoned doggies need loving care... perhaps that's why GOD put me here.
In Memory of our Dear Paul
No-one could have wished for a more devoted son and brother. He lived life to the full and packed so much into his 21 years. He is missed by us all. He helped everyone he could and did a lot for charity (walking backwards around Brands Hatch was one way). His brother and sisters looked to him for advice as he found academic subjects easy. He also had a wicked sense of humour which sometimes got him into trouble at school. This made him popular with his mates as he didn't want to appear too clever.
His dad never really recovered from the shock of losing him and nobody realised how much he suffered because of it. People rallied around me and gave me lots of sympathy but his dad was somehow expected to carry on as usual. They are together now and little Curtis has joined them in the same grave.
His brother Andrew was his best friend and found life very difficult without him. They used to play pool together and a memorial trophy was given in Paul's memory. Andrew was determined to win this trophy and it was presented to him by his sister Karen, who was really proud.
His sister Natalie will never forget the day he died as it was on her 18th birthday and a big party had been arranged for the weekend.
Things will never be the same again and I often wonder what might have been. I could talk to Paul about anything and everything - he meant so much to me.
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